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Monday, December 12, 2011

11.12.2011

A busy day but time well spent I guess!

Went for deluxe big breakfast then set off for shopping!

Got another nursing bra meant for outdoor wear at John Little (quite like the brand - impression )
Then got a elastic rubber skirt from patch for myself!
Want to shop more but skeptical abt the size to buy! No confidence of slimming down soon! Boo! ;(

Then, Jason who is in a gd mood went on a shopping spree!
He bought 2 business wear long pants n 2 short sleeve blouse frm G2000..
Having spent more than $120 with POSB everyday card, we qualify for a instant dip lucky draw!
As usual, no luck with the big prize of iPod nano but instead win a $15 cash voucher to be spent by 15/12!!
Aiyo.. Such a short timeframe.. Wanted to get some socks but can't find them, wonder if they carry socks in the first place??!

Thereafter proceed to NTUC extra to get a fan to be placed in the study room..
Think it's essential to get one since we ve decided to have the CL sleep with bb in the study room instead so we need to provide a gd fan..
Cz Jason n I will b sleeping in the bb's room as the aircon in the master bedroom doesn't seem to b working ! ;(
Moreover, after the confinement period, guess I will b spending most of the time in the study room with bb as well so we will definitely need a fan!
Think we got a gd deal, a aerogaz fan remote control plus fully electronically operated at $35.. ;)

Jason set it up n it's fully operational now...

Then we tested the pigeon steriliser ..
We need to sterilise the steriliser for first time use..
Then we proceed to sterilise 5 pigeon bottles n Medela breast pumps..
The rapid steam steriliser is really fast n efficient n can accommodate 5bottles but the accessory tray seems too small for the 5 teats+ caps + breast pump accessory..

Initially, Jason n I were puzzled y does it only require 120mls of water then we realise that the main objective is to sterilise and not to wash!
We should have washed all the bottles n stuff with brush n pigeon soap after use, then final stage of sterilising...
Fast n furious n everything is done in 6mins!

Packed and setup everything in place!
Oh yes, settled the buffet catering for baby's full month too!
Catering from Ye Lai Siang - order placed n confirmed!
Just to prepare some additional cutlery! Shall buy from SKP nearer to the date!

Set off to sushi tei for a gd family dinner!!
My final dose of gongcha before I pop!!


PS: posted online at the forum to ask if I can find daily rated CL since Aunty siew Lian can only commence on sun!
I foresee I will definitely need help on fri n sat after I discharged!
Eileen replied thAt she will check with her CL n hopefully she's able n willing to help out for the 2days!
It is not a problem if money can solve it!
Keeping my fingers crossed thAts she's ok to take up the job!!

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Final verdict by Dr Kee:

Elective Csect with epidural on
13.12.11 at 8am..

Both Jason and I are very happy with the time slot and timing as this is what we suggested to Dr Kee.. ;)
Luckily he agreed and it falls within his schedule! Else, I will have to waste $500 just to book my desired timing!

So we will have to check in around 11.30pm-12am on 12/12, which was fine with us since this indicates we will only be charged for 13/12..
Anyways, Jason prefer that I check in on 12/12 after 11pm so as to settle all the documents and miscellaneous , and to rest before the surgery!

Still feeling very skeptical and a little worried about the surgery!
Praying for a smooth delivery and baby will be healthy n well!

On a side note, went to pay deposit for bb full month celebration..
Guess what, we decided to host it at bukit batok CSC club instead of Jurong Safra club.. Main reasons are bcoz we can't engage our own vendor and the timing is frm 5pm - 9pm..
But CSC club allows us to have our caterer n pretty flexible with the timing frm 5pm-10pm n also inclusive of free coffee n tea thru out the event..
Bonus would be a customised banner with bb pic and some simple balloon decorations!

So venue settled! Pending would be the customised kit kat and the buffet catering!

Counting down!

Friday, December 9, 2011

last nite was a nightmare for me...
thru-out my pregnancy, i didnt have much problems with sleeping..
even though i woke up several times to pee during second trimester, i can almost fall back to sleep quite quickly!
but ever since i reached third trimester, or is it due to the constant thoughts and concerns about the nearing delivery; ive been having intermittent sleep!
quality sleep is practically a foreign concept nowadays! :(

last nite, i woke up at 2.30pm for pee, and couldnt get back to sleep till 5.30pm!
so u can imagine a zombified penguin at work!
but on the happier note, i can sense and feel baby Kadelyn's movements which put me at ease..
since the Dr Chang and Dr Yeo have been stressing on me to constantly monitor the baby movements!


how time flies, today marks my last working day of the day, and i will officially commence my 19 weeks of leave; and will only be back to work end April next year!
though many envy that it's a long break for me, but im totally skeptical about what lies ahead!
imagine a first-time mommy coping with an infant, and having to manage my c-sect wound!
certainly doesnt sound the least relaxing!

whatever it shall be or it may be, i just gotta stay positive to deal with it!
gonna enjoy the company X'mas Feast tonite at The Line - Shangrila Hotel !!

and tmr will be D-Day, the day whereby the verdict will be made!
keeping my fingers crossed for the best!!

Thursday, December 8, 2011

now that my c-sect maybe brought forward to early next week instead of the initially scheduled 19-Dec,
that means Baby Full Month Celebration will be earlier :)

Instead of 14th January, it will be on the 7th Jan... Would still prefer a saturday evening...
As discussed earlier with Jason, he still prefer a 1-stop provider instead of sourcing for the venue and caterer separately...
hence we will be checking out the pool side party room at Jurong Safra this Saturday..
hopefully, we will be able to firm up all the details by this saturday before i pop next week!

hence, redesigned the invitation cards



Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Naughty Baby !

: juz complete my detailed scan by Dr TC Chang, and was given the below findings:
Bb growing at abt 5th percentile, still in breech position, and high resistance blood flow to bb..,
So he suggested to take bb out by next mon/tues..,
My gynae will only be back tis sat so can only firm up the dates n details then..
My bb leaves me with no choices, guess I juz ve to remain positive..,

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Went for the scheduled CTG scan + Full Fetal Scan with Doppler at Thomson Medical Centre this morning..

Everything was good and well for the CTG..
There are 2 ratings with graphs plotted based on the ratings..
1 indicates the Fetal heartbeat while the other indicates the Contraction rate..


Thereafter proceed to do the Fetal assessment with Doppler scan..
Results are not good as the baby is growing at or below the 5th percentile plus there is still high resistance in the doppler blood flow..



Went to Dr KC Yeo (relief gynae) for review of results..
He was very worried with the results and suggested that I go for another Fetal assessment by Dr TC Chang, the head of the Fetal Assessment Unit..

I think the worst scenario would be that the growth of the baby is stagnant and they may suggest to deliver the baby earlier than the scheduled csect..
Keeping my fingers crossed that everything will be well and we can proceed as per the scheduled 19dec..

NB: baby Kadelyn, can u pls b good and grow well & healthily?
That's the only wish daddy n mommy have for u!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Took the day off, and went shopping with dad n sis..
It has been such a long long time since we last went shopping, ever since mom left us..

The main mission of the shopping trip was to buy a gold anklet for bb Kadelyn..
那是妈妈身前的遗愿。

The unit price of the gold is absolutely crazy!! $81 per gram!
Dad didn't want to buy the Disney series anklets since those are of 10k gold n no value at all..

Since its his first grandchild, and it has been mom's wish; so he decided to buy a better one..
Initially was looking at several designs ranging from 2g-4g..
But ended up buying a 6g 916gold anklet!

It's really nice with many small gold heart-shaped, resembling grandpa n grandma love for Kadelyn..




Sunday, December 4, 2011

As shared by other mommies from the forum, so went to Suntec baby fair at the exhibition hall.

Bought the Parklon - yellow bear play mat M size (1900mm * 1300mm * 12mm) from the vendor - small small world.. Quite a good deal, I would say as it is $140 with a free bottle of may cleanser + poster..

Initially my fren recommend me to buy the Winnie the Pooh design, S size selling at $130.. but Jason dont like it.. I also prefer the Yellow Bear design as it comes with rainbow yellow bear on one side n alphabet on the other side...

Went to ve a look at the bjorn carrier too.,, decided not to buy since we ve bought a chicco baby carrier earlier this year...

Won a 400g similac milk powder (step 2 - 6 mths & above) & a $5 peony voucher (practically useless to me)..

N finally applied for the passion card at $12 for 5yrs mbrship with a free skechers bowler bag., ;)

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Crap! Went to bukit batok CSC to view the Tapestry Room n was utterly disappointed with the guy's attitude n service!
Pissed us off immediately!!
We were trying to talk about the terms n conditions before making the deposit but he doesn't seem the least interested to close the deal!
Fuck lor!
Just when we thought the venue is settled, now we gotta re- source again! :(
Went to view the other rooms available at bukit batok CSC but it doesn't rily meet our needs.


Thereafter proceed to Jurong Safra but the banquet sales coordinator doesn't work on wkends so I gotta to liaise with her on Monday on the possibility to meet up with her on Tuesday since we r off...
Tink Jason now prefers a one-stop service provide with venue n food catering since it saves the hassle n in any case it doesn't provide much cost savings if we were to book venue n catering separately...
Sigh, see how it goes ba..


M so moody today..,
Feeling so tired..,
want to shop but don't know what to buy..
Want to buy clothes but don't know what size!!


Hopefully a CRAB-by dinner gonna perk me up a little!

Thursday, December 1, 2011

不知不觉,时光飞逝。

今天,已是失去您的第100天。
妈妈,您好吗?
我们好想您!!!
无时无刻,都想着与您共同的点点滴滴。

希望,现在的您,远离了病痛,是开心的。
请您有空就到我们的梦境来,和我们谈心。

思念着对您的一切
我爱您,亲爱的妈妈!

Don't get confused between my personality & my attitude.
My personality is who I am, my attitude depends on who you are.



1.12.2011: December !

i have always love December, as it's the season of joy, love & celebration!
so in a way, im happy that Kadelyn is born in the month of December - merry = happy !


moreover, we will all belong to the same FIRE sign under the horoscope category..
Jason is Aries, I'm Leo, and Baby Kadelyn will be Sagittarius.. ;)

i seriously rebuke those senseless remarks from some people, saying that babies born in December will be slow learners, will have a hard time catching up...etc.
seriously, i dont think those born in January are definitely more clever?
why be overly concerned of the child's development and learning progress...
think it's the kiasuism of the parents' mindset...


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last day of work for the week, and i will be off till next Wednesday!


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Haiz.. The baker finally reverted..
The price is acceptable but they do not provide delivery n her location is at potong pasir CC so it's pretty inconvenient for us..
Imagine Jason driving all the way down just to collect the cake...
Sigh, now gotta source for other options...

the 3D cakes are so expensive!
and now, i m os uncertain what i want!



a 2-tiered fondant cake?




or a 1-tier fondant, fudge cake?




or some sweet cupcakes?

 




i think cupcakes would save the hassle, and it's much cheaper
but Jason would prefer a full cake, and i oso tink a full cake seems more presentable


sigh, no conclusion.



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

30.11.2011: invitation cake & cakes settled!

such a huge relief to have settled the full month celebration venue, buffet caterer and full month cakes for relatives..

so the remaining task would be to self-design / DIY an Invitation Card + source for a cake / cupcakes..

Invitation Card

managed to source for some minnie mouse templates online,
& ta-dah.. my self-design card
*a little sense of accomplishment*





Birthday Cake

try sourcing for some cakes and/or cupcakes..


in fact, i super like this design:

P/S: pending for the baker to reply me on the pricing!!
hope it is within my budget! ;)








isnt it simply so sweet n lovely!!



Tuesday, November 29, 2011

29.11.2011: bb full mth celebration

now that we have a date in mind, it's relatively easier to plan for bb full mth celebration..
Assuming kadelyn is to pop on 19/12 (hoping for no surprises!!), then we will have the full mth celebration on the wkend of 14/1 (preferably Saturday)... it's the tradition to have the full-mth party either earlier or on the actual day, but definitely not later...

sourcing for a venue is quite difficult... it would mk things so much easier if we have a condo function room, then all u ve to do is just to cater buffet, and cakes...
shortlisted some venues, gotta discuss with Jason abt it.. the location, pricing, facilities...etc.

Yeah, happie! managed to find a venue, which is convenient for us, and not too troublesome for those without personal transport...

I have booked the Tapestry Room @ Bukit Batok Civil Service Club on 14th Jan for 5pm-10pm..
it comes with some simple decorations, and free flow drinks throughout the session, and tables & charis for a comfortable sitting of 50pax..
liked the flexibility of being able to use our own caterer!
& additional bonus of a customized banner with bb Kadelyn's pic!

so venue settled, sourcing for buffet catering which is so much easier!!
have many recommendations from frenz on Yeh Lai Siang..
so most likely going for it too..
like the variety they have!

now pendingwill be consolidating the total no. of pax we will be inviting before confirming the order..

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we will only be inviting both our colleagues and friends, and will distribute cakes to relatives...
have shortlisted 2 vendors for the full-mth bb cakes..
i was looking at a more conventional vendor that provides a twist to the traditional...

Le Precious VS Sweetest Moments
both offers similar range, and pricing is the same..
so it's really very competitve...
i like the idea of having a customized card...
it looks so sweet and personalized...


so sweet, isnt it...

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YEAH~
venue confirmed, buffet caterer confirmed, bb full mth cakes confirmed!!


29.11.2011: Jason's Leave Planning

wah! totally overwhelmed by the load of planning that i have been doing, all for Baby's Kadelyn's arrival + big day...


Jasline's Plans
settled by own vacation + maternity leave with the company..
will officially return to work onm 23rd April...
yet to decide if i should extend by 1 week of Annual Leave so that i will officially start work in May...



DecemberMON TUE WEDTHUFRISATSUN
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JanuaryMON TUE WEDTHUFRISATSUN
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Jason's Plans
so today, drafted Jason's Leave plans:

Ø  6 days of Child Care Leave (19th, 20th, 21st, 22nd, 23rd & 27th December)
Ø  1.5 days of F.C.L (28th & 29th December – 0.5 days)
Ø  5.5 days of Annual Leave (29th December – 0.5 days, 30th December, 3rd, 4th, 5th & 6th January)
Ø  3 days of Annual Leave (25th, 26th & 27th January)

P/S: Hopefully his boss is agreeable with the planning!!

Legend
P.H.
Public Holiday
A.L.
Annual Leave
F.C.L
Family Care Leave
C.C.L
Child Care Leave
December
MON
TUE
WED
THU
FRI
SAT
SUN
Jason
19
20
21
22
23
24
25
C.C.L
C.C.L
C.C.L
C.C.L
C.C.L

P.H.
26
27
28
29
30
31
P.H.
C.C.L
F.C.L
F.C.L
A.L.


January
MON
TUE
WED
THU
FRI
SAT
SUN
Jaon
1
P.H.
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
P.H.
A.L.
A.L.
A.L.
A.L.


9
10
11
12
13
14
15







16
17
18
19
20
21
22






P.H.
23
24
25
26
27
21
22
P.H.
P.H.
A.L.
A.L.
A.L.


30
31





p/s: damn pissed with Jason.. sometimes, i really wonder what is he doing?!!! not helping at all lor!!
to think i am doing all the planning, sourcing!! damn frustrated!!1 juz need to vent my frustration!!!!